Last week, when I went to school to take the exam, I had arranged with one of my teachers to work on something. However, she got stuck in traffic and by the time she got there, we had already left. Although it didn't work out that day, we still needed to go in and take books and stuff back, so I was able to arrange with her to work on it on Friday. I think there were 7 students, one teacher and the principal there that day. So, then after lunch we all played football (soccer). It was the three boys against the four girls. I did what I had hoped to with my teacher and had fun playing football!
~Olivia
This was a big weekend for us at the church we have been filling in at while we are here. Yesterday we led a visioning workshop for them from about 9:00-3:00. We had a good turn out and good participation. We felt very good about the whole day and hope we left them empowered and energized. Then today was our last Sunday there. They began the service by singing one of the songs we taught them - Praise, I will praise you Lord. - noting their appreciation for our work together. I found I had a lump in my throat. There were other words of appreciation and a few Trini souvenirs given to us. It was a good, full weekend.
Exactly one month from today we will return home to KS. In many ways we are really looking forward to that. We miss our families and friends there. We miss our church there. But we are also realizing how hard it is to say good bye. We are so blessed to have been touched by so many lovely people both here and at home.
~Barb
For a little while now, we have been thinking about having a Thanksgiving. I think we've mentioned those before, but they're basically a little service and then a meal in celebration of something. My parents' 25th wedding anniversary was at the end of May, and so this would be partly to celebrate that, and also partly to celebrate our time here in Trinidad. So we've officially decided to have a Thanksgiving on the 27th of June at the church we live above. So on Friday, while Olivia was at school, I went to Trincity Mall with my parents. We got invitations to hand out, a guest book for people to sign, and shiny purple balloons to decorate! While we were there, we ran into one of the pastors and his daughter! So we gave him the invitation for his church and talked to him for a little. My parents had to go to pick up Olivia from school, but Navin (the pastor) offered to take me with him and his daughter to see The Karate Kid. So I went along with him while my parents went and got Olivia. When we came out of the movie, my parents and Olivia were waiting for us. Then we drove home to realize we were out of electricity, as Daddy will explain.
~Roxy
After being gone most of the day on Friday, we returned home at about 6:30 to discover that we were out of electricity. It wasn't long, however, before we saw the crew arrive from T&TEC (Trinidad & Tobago Electrical Commission). We went to our apartment windows on and off over the next several hours to watch the workers as they removed and replaced a section of wire. We do have several candles, a flashlight and a nice battery-powered reading light that we were able to use to see as the evening went on. The biggest issue was that without electricity, we had no air conditioning or even fan to keep cool. It got quite warm in the apartment, especially as we burned several candles to keep the place lit. Meanwhile, members of Charlieville Mennonite Church gathered downstairs for their annual business meeting, which was also conducted by candlelight. Finally, about ten minutes before the meeting ended, power was restored. We were really glad to have power back so we could cool down the apartment before we went to sleep.
~Richard
Sunday, June 13, 2010
Sunday, June 6, 2010
Ministry, Music and Mangoes
Our time working at Diego Martin Mennonite Church is soon coming to an end. The regular pastor, Rawl Gunpath, will be returning from his sabbatical in just over a week. Today we celebrated our last communion with the congregation. (Communion is observed on the first Sunday of each month.) This afternoon I attended the monthly meeting of Mennonite pastors for the last time as well. Next week will be our final worship service at Diego Martin.
This past Friday evening was to be the annual business meeting for the congregation. However, the official meeting didn't take place due to the lack of a quorum. There was still a great deal of discussion among those who were present regarding what needs to happen in the church to help revitalize it. It was an important time for people to express some of their fears and frustrations with the fact that numbers have been dwindling for some time. In the end, though, there was strong affirmation to continue working to create a vision that can be embraced to guide the church in its renewal efforts. Some of this work began a couple of weeks ago when Barb led church members in a brief visioning workshop immediately following the worship service. Today, it was decided to continue that process next Saturday in a day-long meeting at the church. So while our work will soon end at Diego Martin, it is our prayer that our efforts will assist the congregation in its mission for some time after we have returned home.
~Richard
On Friday, I took the second (and final) part of my exams. It was nice to go back to school and see people for that. Luckily this exam didn't take nearly as long as the first one had! In fact, I got there around 8:30, talked to my friends I hadn't seen for a while and then the test started at 9:00, and we were done by 10:00. The principal had e-mailed me some stuff to review since I hadn't been at school to do the review, so I looked over that and the test went pretty well. Although, I'm not sure I'll be able to get my results back since they're not supposed to come until August, and we won't be in Trinidad by then. So, I may never get back my results, which would be too bad. My friend said she'll get them for me and let me know, but we'll have to see. But, it was nice that this test didn't go nearly as long as the first one!
~Olivia
Last night (Saturday), we attended our first Trini wedding! We had hoped we'd be able to see one while we were here, and a couple from the Mennonite churches got married last night. They had asked Olivia and I to do some music, and we ended up doing 4 numbers (including the processional and recessional) during it. We kind of had to think on our feet, because we weren't sure how long anything would take. There had been a rehearsal a few nights before, but we weren't really sure how long things would take because they hadn't had all their things there. In the end I think it went really well. The wedding really wasn't that different from an American wedding. At the reception, we saw lots of music we wouldn't in the States, though. There was a man who played 3 songs on steel pan, a tassa band (which got very loud when we were standing right next to them), and a girl danced to some traditional Indian music. We also had a big meal afterward. It was really nice to see a Trini wedding and kind of fun to play in one too!
~Roxy
It's mango season in Trinidad! As the rainy season returned last month, the mangoes, which had been nesting in trees for months, finally came ready. One family in our church has many trees and knows we love mangoes. We recieved our first box of mangoes from them a couple of weeks ago. In it they noted were three types of mangoes: Julies (often thought to be the best and generally our favorite), longs and box & spice. We still had a few left when our guests arrived last week. But far be it from Trini's to let our guests run out. They brought us another box last week. So for almost 2 weeks we have been eating mangoes once or twice a day. Then on Thursday some other friends wanted to take us down south to visit a church camp owned by another missionary here. As we walked through the beautiful camp, we saw piles of mangoes all over - in the trees, on the ground, some rotting, some waiting just for us. There were 3 families on this trek and we all took home another box or bag of mangoes, plus some fresh limes. Then, at the church meeting on Friday, our first friends from church decided we would be ready for some new varieties of mangoes. We haven't even had the chance yet to try the starch and doloos mangoes they sent home with us. I never feel so rich as when I have a kitchen full of fresh fruit. I've never seen so many mangoes in my life, but I'm still loving them! They are definitely something I will miss.
~Barb
This past Friday evening was to be the annual business meeting for the congregation. However, the official meeting didn't take place due to the lack of a quorum. There was still a great deal of discussion among those who were present regarding what needs to happen in the church to help revitalize it. It was an important time for people to express some of their fears and frustrations with the fact that numbers have been dwindling for some time. In the end, though, there was strong affirmation to continue working to create a vision that can be embraced to guide the church in its renewal efforts. Some of this work began a couple of weeks ago when Barb led church members in a brief visioning workshop immediately following the worship service. Today, it was decided to continue that process next Saturday in a day-long meeting at the church. So while our work will soon end at Diego Martin, it is our prayer that our efforts will assist the congregation in its mission for some time after we have returned home.
~Richard
On Friday, I took the second (and final) part of my exams. It was nice to go back to school and see people for that. Luckily this exam didn't take nearly as long as the first one had! In fact, I got there around 8:30, talked to my friends I hadn't seen for a while and then the test started at 9:00, and we were done by 10:00. The principal had e-mailed me some stuff to review since I hadn't been at school to do the review, so I looked over that and the test went pretty well. Although, I'm not sure I'll be able to get my results back since they're not supposed to come until August, and we won't be in Trinidad by then. So, I may never get back my results, which would be too bad. My friend said she'll get them for me and let me know, but we'll have to see. But, it was nice that this test didn't go nearly as long as the first one!
~Olivia
Last night (Saturday), we attended our first Trini wedding! We had hoped we'd be able to see one while we were here, and a couple from the Mennonite churches got married last night. They had asked Olivia and I to do some music, and we ended up doing 4 numbers (including the processional and recessional) during it. We kind of had to think on our feet, because we weren't sure how long anything would take. There had been a rehearsal a few nights before, but we weren't really sure how long things would take because they hadn't had all their things there. In the end I think it went really well. The wedding really wasn't that different from an American wedding. At the reception, we saw lots of music we wouldn't in the States, though. There was a man who played 3 songs on steel pan, a tassa band (which got very loud when we were standing right next to them), and a girl danced to some traditional Indian music. We also had a big meal afterward. It was really nice to see a Trini wedding and kind of fun to play in one too!
~Roxy
It's mango season in Trinidad! As the rainy season returned last month, the mangoes, which had been nesting in trees for months, finally came ready. One family in our church has many trees and knows we love mangoes. We recieved our first box of mangoes from them a couple of weeks ago. In it they noted were three types of mangoes: Julies (often thought to be the best and generally our favorite), longs and box & spice. We still had a few left when our guests arrived last week. But far be it from Trini's to let our guests run out. They brought us another box last week. So for almost 2 weeks we have been eating mangoes once or twice a day. Then on Thursday some other friends wanted to take us down south to visit a church camp owned by another missionary here. As we walked through the beautiful camp, we saw piles of mangoes all over - in the trees, on the ground, some rotting, some waiting just for us. There were 3 families on this trek and we all took home another box or bag of mangoes, plus some fresh limes. Then, at the church meeting on Friday, our first friends from church decided we would be ready for some new varieties of mangoes. We haven't even had the chance yet to try the starch and doloos mangoes they sent home with us. I never feel so rich as when I have a kitchen full of fresh fruit. I've never seen so many mangoes in my life, but I'm still loving them! They are definitely something I will miss.
~Barb
Tuesday, June 1, 2010
Family Visit
It's been a while since our last entry because we've been busy with visiting family for the past week. My mother, sister and two nephews (ages 18 and 20) spent the last eight days with us. For my mom and nephews, it was their first time to travel outside of the U.S. and Canada. We enjoyed the opportunity to take a bit of "vacation" time as we explored a few new places that we hadn't yet visited in Trinidad, and returned to some of our favorite sites on the island.
They arrived on the evening of May 24, which was also the day of the eagerly-awaited election here. There had been some concern about some possible unrest and potential violence, but the election came off without a hitch. There were some long lines at the polls, and a few complaints of irregularities, but nothing more out-of-the-ordinary than the United States has experienced in recent elections. In the end, we witnessed the election of the first-ever female Prime Minister of Trinidad and Tobago, Kamla Persad-Bissessar. Her election wasn't especially surprising, but the margin of victory was rather astounding. Her party nearly doubled the number of seats it holds in parliament as it moved from 15 members to 29. One of the notable differences between the parliamentary system and the American system is that she took office almost immediately, having been sworn in less than 48 hours after the polls closed. Her entire cabinet was in place by the end of the week.
~Richard
The day after our guests arrived was Richard and my 25th wedding anniversary. The group was interested in seeing the leatherback turtles nesting. Trinidad is one of the few places in the world you can see this. Since the best beach for this is quite a drive (about two and a half hours from us), we decided to celebrate our anniversary by going overnight to a charming Caribbean Inn in turtle country. Although we had seen the turtles once before with another set of guests, this time we went farther in, and because it was later in the season, we got to see, hold and release some of the tiny hatchlings. They stayed in our hands paddling with their fins as we listened in the rain to the guide describe their slim chance of survival. Then, after watching several adult turtles lay their eggs, we walked to the moonlit shore and released these babies into the ocean. It was both sad and hopeful. Mostly, it was sweet. We had such a good time that we said we just might have to return for our 50th anniversary.
~Barb
One of the fun things that we did with our family here (that we'd wanted to do but hadn't yet) was going 'Down D Islands'. There are some tiny islands off the far northwest tip of Trinidad. We got there right on time, but, as it is in Trinidad, everything took longer than we expected it to. First we had to go to about 3 different buildings just to get the tickets and everything to get on the boat. Then we got to the Chaguramas Port and waited for a long time more for another group that was joining us on the tour. Once we boarded the boat, the ride itself was surprisingly short. Then we tied up the boat at the edge of Gaspar Grande, one of the islands off the coast. There are others that we could have gotten boats to, also, but Gaspar Grande has this big cave, Gasparee Cave, which is where we were headed. One thing that surprised me, when we tied up the boat, was that Gaspar Grande really didn't have a beach. They said that lots of limestone was found on the island. Then we walked uphill for a while (following this cute little dog they called Pumpkin) until we got to a house that was owned by the tour organization. We rested there for a while (and ate) and then walked down to the cave entrance! Our guide was really good, because he grew up playing in the cave before they had steps and everything. He said that there was a tree sticking out of one of the holes, and they'd slide down the tree and then dive into the pool at the bottom of the cave! Then they installed steps and, our guide said, took all the fun out of getting down there. We hadn't brought swimsuits, because we hadn't heard anything about swimming, and in fact there were signs down there saying we couldn't. But our guide let some people swim anyways. I liked how he let us climb all over and there weren't really things in the cave we couldn't touch! When we got back out of the cave and sat on the balcony of the house I mentioned earlier, the breeze felt amazingly cool after the stuffiness of the cave! We just sat on the balcony for a while and watched the ocean (and ate). When everyone was out of the cave, we headed back to the boat and then back to Trinidad!
~Roxy
On Sunday there was another joint service, since it was the 5th Sunday in May. All six Mennonite churches met at Sangre Grande Mennonite Church. This was the last joint service we'll be in Trinidad for. Our guests were still here, so we all rode up to Sangre Grande in the van we rented. There was a church service and then a meal afterward. Since it was Indian Arrival Day (a holiday celebrating the arrival of Indians as indentured servants in 1845), they prepared an Indian meal. It included fried rice, stewed chicken, salad, macaroni pie and some Indian sweets: kurma, barfi and cake. It's very exciting because each time we go to the joint services, we know more people. Actually, at this one, there were more people from Sangre Grande since that's where the service was being held and I don't know those people as well, so maybe that's not so much true for this one. But, I was still somewhat surprised how many people I did know.
Our guests left early this morning, and we very much enjoyed having them here.
~Olivia
They arrived on the evening of May 24, which was also the day of the eagerly-awaited election here. There had been some concern about some possible unrest and potential violence, but the election came off without a hitch. There were some long lines at the polls, and a few complaints of irregularities, but nothing more out-of-the-ordinary than the United States has experienced in recent elections. In the end, we witnessed the election of the first-ever female Prime Minister of Trinidad and Tobago, Kamla Persad-Bissessar. Her election wasn't especially surprising, but the margin of victory was rather astounding. Her party nearly doubled the number of seats it holds in parliament as it moved from 15 members to 29. One of the notable differences between the parliamentary system and the American system is that she took office almost immediately, having been sworn in less than 48 hours after the polls closed. Her entire cabinet was in place by the end of the week.
~Richard
The day after our guests arrived was Richard and my 25th wedding anniversary. The group was interested in seeing the leatherback turtles nesting. Trinidad is one of the few places in the world you can see this. Since the best beach for this is quite a drive (about two and a half hours from us), we decided to celebrate our anniversary by going overnight to a charming Caribbean Inn in turtle country. Although we had seen the turtles once before with another set of guests, this time we went farther in, and because it was later in the season, we got to see, hold and release some of the tiny hatchlings. They stayed in our hands paddling with their fins as we listened in the rain to the guide describe their slim chance of survival. Then, after watching several adult turtles lay their eggs, we walked to the moonlit shore and released these babies into the ocean. It was both sad and hopeful. Mostly, it was sweet. We had such a good time that we said we just might have to return for our 50th anniversary.
~Barb
One of the fun things that we did with our family here (that we'd wanted to do but hadn't yet) was going 'Down D Islands'. There are some tiny islands off the far northwest tip of Trinidad. We got there right on time, but, as it is in Trinidad, everything took longer than we expected it to. First we had to go to about 3 different buildings just to get the tickets and everything to get on the boat. Then we got to the Chaguramas Port and waited for a long time more for another group that was joining us on the tour. Once we boarded the boat, the ride itself was surprisingly short. Then we tied up the boat at the edge of Gaspar Grande, one of the islands off the coast. There are others that we could have gotten boats to, also, but Gaspar Grande has this big cave, Gasparee Cave, which is where we were headed. One thing that surprised me, when we tied up the boat, was that Gaspar Grande really didn't have a beach. They said that lots of limestone was found on the island. Then we walked uphill for a while (following this cute little dog they called Pumpkin) until we got to a house that was owned by the tour organization. We rested there for a while (and ate) and then walked down to the cave entrance! Our guide was really good, because he grew up playing in the cave before they had steps and everything. He said that there was a tree sticking out of one of the holes, and they'd slide down the tree and then dive into the pool at the bottom of the cave! Then they installed steps and, our guide said, took all the fun out of getting down there. We hadn't brought swimsuits, because we hadn't heard anything about swimming, and in fact there were signs down there saying we couldn't. But our guide let some people swim anyways. I liked how he let us climb all over and there weren't really things in the cave we couldn't touch! When we got back out of the cave and sat on the balcony of the house I mentioned earlier, the breeze felt amazingly cool after the stuffiness of the cave! We just sat on the balcony for a while and watched the ocean (and ate). When everyone was out of the cave, we headed back to the boat and then back to Trinidad!
~Roxy
On Sunday there was another joint service, since it was the 5th Sunday in May. All six Mennonite churches met at Sangre Grande Mennonite Church. This was the last joint service we'll be in Trinidad for. Our guests were still here, so we all rode up to Sangre Grande in the van we rented. There was a church service and then a meal afterward. Since it was Indian Arrival Day (a holiday celebrating the arrival of Indians as indentured servants in 1845), they prepared an Indian meal. It included fried rice, stewed chicken, salad, macaroni pie and some Indian sweets: kurma, barfi and cake. It's very exciting because each time we go to the joint services, we know more people. Actually, at this one, there were more people from Sangre Grande since that's where the service was being held and I don't know those people as well, so maybe that's not so much true for this one. But, I was still somewhat surprised how many people I did know.
Our guests left early this morning, and we very much enjoyed having them here.
~Olivia
Sunday, May 23, 2010
An Election, A Graduation, An Outing and A Funeral
There are two major hotels in Trinidad; the Hyatt and the Hilton. We had heard about some of the places to eat at those hotels, so we decided to go try it out last Thursday. Of course, their main restaurants were really expensive; about $50 US. But, we also found out that both restaurants have poolside restaurants and the Hyatt has a tapas bar as well. So, we went to the Hilton first. We were going to get dessert or something there, and then swim, but they had finished serving and so we just went in the pool. The pool was actually very nice, and there aren't a lot of public pools here, so that was nice. Then, we went over to the Hyatt and got supper at the tapas bar there. That was really nice, too. It was expensive, but since with tapas you don't really order that much food anyways, it didn't add up to too much. We tried the plantain chips, lamp kabobs, quesadillas and chicken samosa. It was very good! There was music there around 6:30 and we were hoping to stay for some of that, but we finished too early. But, it was a nice day.
~Olivia
Yesterday was graduation day at West Indies Theological College. The ceremonies marked the formal end of the academic year, and a reminder that our time here in Trinidad is indeed drawing to a close. Eleven students graduated this year. Of those eleven, six had been in at least one of the classes that we taught. The graduation ceremony was held at a Church of God in Port of Spain. I was invited to deliver the opening invocation. When we arrived, we were also somewhat surprised to find out that we were to receive special awards during the ceremony. Barb and I each received a very nice plaque from the college in appreciation of our service over the past year. It was a really nice ceremony, although three hours in an unairconditioned building got a little bit long--especially for all of us in academic gowns.
Following the ceremony, we headed over to the Crowne Plaza Hotel in Port of Spain (the other top hotel besides the Hyatt and the Hilton) for the banquet. The meal was a very nice buffet. There was also a program that included music (solos on steelpan and violin) and toasts of appreciation to various groups of people. Once again, we were toasted in recognition of our service to the college. I had been warned about this a few days in advance so that I could be ready with a brief response as well.
All in all, it was a lovely day, although somewhat bittersweet as we mark the closing of this chapter in our time in Trinidad.
~Richard
We mentioned in our blog last week that the father-in-law of one of the pastors had died suddenly, and that we had gone to the wake. When I mentioned to Trini friends that none of us had ever been to a wake before, they were surprised. I explained that wakes are not common these days in most communities in the U.S. "How do you support the family then?" They were concerned that people were left alone in their grief. While I was able to explain many gestures and rituals of support that still occur, it is a good question. Do we sometimes neglect the family in times of death? This family had wakes from the death on Friday till the funeral on Tuesday. We went on two nights.
The wake was not the only first I encountered related to that death. The funeral service was not unlike funerals to which I am accustomed. But this gentleman chose to be cremated. Some choose to be cremated in a crematorium. But it is more common to be taken to a cremation site. So, after the funeral we all got in our cars and processed to the cremation site where words of comfort and sending were spoken, just like those I have been part of at burials. Then, kindling was placed on and around the body along with ghee, a sort of butter common in Indian cooking. Ghee was also put in the pyre where the body was then placed and lit. Hymns were sung while this was happening. People stood for a while, then began to turn to one another and to the family and visit or share words of comfort.
There was one more first. As our carload was leaving, one of the people we gave a ride to wanted to buy us snowcones. So, yes, I had my first ever snowcone at a funeral. In the U.S. it probably would be considered crass to sell refreshments at a cemetery. But on this hot day, when the family and their friends were there for a while, a family quietly available off a ways to sell cool drinks, was a real service. For a very small fee, they kept the mourners hydrated. Having someone buy and bring you something cool was an act of compassion.
~Barb
Although we have been talking about the elections and campaigns for a while now, the actual election will be held tomorrow. The final rallies for each party were held yesterday, but this afternoon, all we could find on the local stations were just re-runs of yesterday's rallies. In some ways it will be a relief to have the elections over, partly because it'll be exciting to find out who won, and also partly because some of the songs blasting out of trucks that drive by adorned in either yellow or red (the parties' colours) are kind of getting on my nerves. If we turn on the radio, we're hearing political advertisements constantly! There are more than this, but here are some links to a few of the songs we've become accustomed to hearing multiple times a day.
Patrick Manning Have to Go Patrick Manning is the current prime minister, and Jack Warner is the Chair of the opposition party. This is a song campaigning for the opposing party, the People's Partnership.
Ah Cyar Vote Fuh Dat (I can't vote for that) This is also for the opposition party, saying that they can't vote for all the current corruption.
Patrick Leave an Go Nah This song is for the People's Partnership as well. Kamla is the leader of the opposition, so if they win the election tomorrow, she will become the first woman Prime Minister!
We Votin' PNM This one is for the PNM, which is the party who's in power right now.
We Stepping Up 'We stepping up' is one of the PNM's slogans for this election. This song is also promoting the PNM
Put Your X By D Balisier The Balisier is a flower--the red flower they show in the video. It is the symbol for the PNM.
While these were fun to listen to for a while, they get kind of old and we hear them a little too much. We will be excited tomorrow evening to hear who won the election, and also to welcome some of our family who will be visiting us and coming in tomorrow evening!
~Roxy
~Olivia
Yesterday was graduation day at West Indies Theological College. The ceremonies marked the formal end of the academic year, and a reminder that our time here in Trinidad is indeed drawing to a close. Eleven students graduated this year. Of those eleven, six had been in at least one of the classes that we taught. The graduation ceremony was held at a Church of God in Port of Spain. I was invited to deliver the opening invocation. When we arrived, we were also somewhat surprised to find out that we were to receive special awards during the ceremony. Barb and I each received a very nice plaque from the college in appreciation of our service over the past year. It was a really nice ceremony, although three hours in an unairconditioned building got a little bit long--especially for all of us in academic gowns.
Following the ceremony, we headed over to the Crowne Plaza Hotel in Port of Spain (the other top hotel besides the Hyatt and the Hilton) for the banquet. The meal was a very nice buffet. There was also a program that included music (solos on steelpan and violin) and toasts of appreciation to various groups of people. Once again, we were toasted in recognition of our service to the college. I had been warned about this a few days in advance so that I could be ready with a brief response as well.
All in all, it was a lovely day, although somewhat bittersweet as we mark the closing of this chapter in our time in Trinidad.
~Richard
We mentioned in our blog last week that the father-in-law of one of the pastors had died suddenly, and that we had gone to the wake. When I mentioned to Trini friends that none of us had ever been to a wake before, they were surprised. I explained that wakes are not common these days in most communities in the U.S. "How do you support the family then?" They were concerned that people were left alone in their grief. While I was able to explain many gestures and rituals of support that still occur, it is a good question. Do we sometimes neglect the family in times of death? This family had wakes from the death on Friday till the funeral on Tuesday. We went on two nights.
The wake was not the only first I encountered related to that death. The funeral service was not unlike funerals to which I am accustomed. But this gentleman chose to be cremated. Some choose to be cremated in a crematorium. But it is more common to be taken to a cremation site. So, after the funeral we all got in our cars and processed to the cremation site where words of comfort and sending were spoken, just like those I have been part of at burials. Then, kindling was placed on and around the body along with ghee, a sort of butter common in Indian cooking. Ghee was also put in the pyre where the body was then placed and lit. Hymns were sung while this was happening. People stood for a while, then began to turn to one another and to the family and visit or share words of comfort.
There was one more first. As our carload was leaving, one of the people we gave a ride to wanted to buy us snowcones. So, yes, I had my first ever snowcone at a funeral. In the U.S. it probably would be considered crass to sell refreshments at a cemetery. But on this hot day, when the family and their friends were there for a while, a family quietly available off a ways to sell cool drinks, was a real service. For a very small fee, they kept the mourners hydrated. Having someone buy and bring you something cool was an act of compassion.
~Barb
Although we have been talking about the elections and campaigns for a while now, the actual election will be held tomorrow. The final rallies for each party were held yesterday, but this afternoon, all we could find on the local stations were just re-runs of yesterday's rallies. In some ways it will be a relief to have the elections over, partly because it'll be exciting to find out who won, and also partly because some of the songs blasting out of trucks that drive by adorned in either yellow or red (the parties' colours) are kind of getting on my nerves. If we turn on the radio, we're hearing political advertisements constantly! There are more than this, but here are some links to a few of the songs we've become accustomed to hearing multiple times a day.
Patrick Manning Have to Go Patrick Manning is the current prime minister, and Jack Warner is the Chair of the opposition party. This is a song campaigning for the opposing party, the People's Partnership.
Ah Cyar Vote Fuh Dat (I can't vote for that) This is also for the opposition party, saying that they can't vote for all the current corruption.
Patrick Leave an Go Nah This song is for the People's Partnership as well. Kamla is the leader of the opposition, so if they win the election tomorrow, she will become the first woman Prime Minister!
We Votin' PNM This one is for the PNM, which is the party who's in power right now.
We Stepping Up 'We stepping up' is one of the PNM's slogans for this election. This song is also promoting the PNM
Put Your X By D Balisier The Balisier is a flower--the red flower they show in the video. It is the symbol for the PNM.
While these were fun to listen to for a while, they get kind of old and we hear them a little too much. We will be excited tomorrow evening to hear who won the election, and also to welcome some of our family who will be visiting us and coming in tomorrow evening!
~Roxy
Sunday, May 16, 2010
May Musings
On Thursday, for our weekly field trip for home school, we decided to go up to Chaguaramas which is an area we've been wanting to look around more. It's just past Diego Martin, where we go to church. We had looked at some of the stuff to do in Chaguaramas and what looked the most interesting was a hike up to a waterfall they call Edith Falls. My mom talked to the tour guide, who said it was an easy hike and a common sense path. We parked at the golf course, and it was obvious where the hike started. The hike went into the rain forest and it was really pretty, although also extremely humid with not much breeze. For the most part the path was fairly "common sense" but then we got to a place where the path turned into a bunch of rocks. We didn't think we were at the waterfall, but it didn't seem like we were on the trail anymore. We had to climb over a bunch of rocks and finally we got to this place at the bottom of a huge cliff and there was water trickling down the side. It was really pretty! Once we got there, it was obvious. For a while, we just sat there and watched it. Then, we went down to the bottom and watched the tiny little frogs jump around. Roxy caught quite a few frogs actually. Eventually, we turned around and made our way back to the golf course. And right after we got in our car it started raining! We got back just in time.
~Olivia
A major highlight from this past week is that we got a NEW CAR! Actually, it's not really ours, it belongs to Virginia Mennonite Missions. But it's the car that we will use for the next couple of months. It's also not really new, but it's much newer and more reliable than the last one. It's a 2005 Toyota Yaris, with only 38,000 kilometers (about 25,000 miles) on it; and it seems to be in excellent condition. Those who've been following our blog over the past several months know that we've faced a number of issues with the former car (a 1998 Mitsubishi Galant with more than 325,000 kilometers or over 200,000 miles). We never were able to find a gasket to replace the one that's been leaking oil since Christmas. We also finally gave up on actually getting the car repaired from the accident when I was rear-ended at a stop sign almost two months ago. The process of making the insurance claim is still ongoing, and we should still be getting a check from the insurance company.
This past Monday, I delivered the old car to a friend of one of the other Mennonite missionaries here. He buys damaged cars, fixes them up and sells them. So he was happy to purchase our old one. Then on Tuesday, I spent the entire morning waiting at the license office in Port of Spain to get the title transferred from the former owner of the Yaris. Most of that time, the workers were still finishing up paperwork from transfers they had started doing the day before. Finally, at about 1:00, all the paperwork was complete and I was able to bring the Yaris home. We are very happy to have the "new" car to drive. Besides being newer, in better shape, more reliable and using less gas than the old car, we also love the fact that it's PURPLE!
~Richard
During our time here in Trinidad we have been able to experience many firsts. Yesterday brought another first for all four of us. It was the first wake we had ever attended. The father of Linda Gunpath, one of the Mennonite pastors' wives, died suddenly on Friday. So, from that night until the funeral, people gather each night at the home of the family to sit with them and offer support. They believe that the cause of death was a heart attack, but would like to do an autopsy. Because autopsies are not done on weekends, they have to wait till Monday. So we will probably be attending the funeral early next week. That means that the family will have wakes for about 4 nights in a row at the house. Mostly folks just gather and visit. The gathering happens outside under a tent. The atmosphere was very nice and supportive. Small children ran and played happily. Last night the gathering was informal. Tonight they may have more of a worship service in their yard with singing and prayers. Extended families often live together in different levels or additions to one large house or in neighboring homes. So there are many hands to help serve coffee and Chubbies (a local brand of pop) and give help where needed. It was good to see Linda and her family so supported and to have the opportunity to be a part of that.
~Barb
In our homeschooling schedule, Friday is a day we just take our normal classes we chose. One of these classes is cooking, though, so we decided to invite someone over every Friday night for supper. Our first guests this week were David and Shirley Yoder, and Olivia and I made potato quiche, cucumber salad, and peanut butter chocolate chip cookies, and cut up some fresh mango. While they were here, a man from the Charlieville Mennonite Church (where we live) came up and shared cookies with us! We had a nice visit with everyone and it was fun to make the meal too! We learned, though, that when grated potatoes sit out for a while, they turn kind of gray. But they still tasted good, and that's what counts.
~Roxy
~Olivia
A major highlight from this past week is that we got a NEW CAR! Actually, it's not really ours, it belongs to Virginia Mennonite Missions. But it's the car that we will use for the next couple of months. It's also not really new, but it's much newer and more reliable than the last one. It's a 2005 Toyota Yaris, with only 38,000 kilometers (about 25,000 miles) on it; and it seems to be in excellent condition. Those who've been following our blog over the past several months know that we've faced a number of issues with the former car (a 1998 Mitsubishi Galant with more than 325,000 kilometers or over 200,000 miles). We never were able to find a gasket to replace the one that's been leaking oil since Christmas. We also finally gave up on actually getting the car repaired from the accident when I was rear-ended at a stop sign almost two months ago. The process of making the insurance claim is still ongoing, and we should still be getting a check from the insurance company.
This past Monday, I delivered the old car to a friend of one of the other Mennonite missionaries here. He buys damaged cars, fixes them up and sells them. So he was happy to purchase our old one. Then on Tuesday, I spent the entire morning waiting at the license office in Port of Spain to get the title transferred from the former owner of the Yaris. Most of that time, the workers were still finishing up paperwork from transfers they had started doing the day before. Finally, at about 1:00, all the paperwork was complete and I was able to bring the Yaris home. We are very happy to have the "new" car to drive. Besides being newer, in better shape, more reliable and using less gas than the old car, we also love the fact that it's PURPLE!
~Richard
During our time here in Trinidad we have been able to experience many firsts. Yesterday brought another first for all four of us. It was the first wake we had ever attended. The father of Linda Gunpath, one of the Mennonite pastors' wives, died suddenly on Friday. So, from that night until the funeral, people gather each night at the home of the family to sit with them and offer support. They believe that the cause of death was a heart attack, but would like to do an autopsy. Because autopsies are not done on weekends, they have to wait till Monday. So we will probably be attending the funeral early next week. That means that the family will have wakes for about 4 nights in a row at the house. Mostly folks just gather and visit. The gathering happens outside under a tent. The atmosphere was very nice and supportive. Small children ran and played happily. Last night the gathering was informal. Tonight they may have more of a worship service in their yard with singing and prayers. Extended families often live together in different levels or additions to one large house or in neighboring homes. So there are many hands to help serve coffee and Chubbies (a local brand of pop) and give help where needed. It was good to see Linda and her family so supported and to have the opportunity to be a part of that.
~Barb
In our homeschooling schedule, Friday is a day we just take our normal classes we chose. One of these classes is cooking, though, so we decided to invite someone over every Friday night for supper. Our first guests this week were David and Shirley Yoder, and Olivia and I made potato quiche, cucumber salad, and peanut butter chocolate chip cookies, and cut up some fresh mango. While they were here, a man from the Charlieville Mennonite Church (where we live) came up and shared cookies with us! We had a nice visit with everyone and it was fun to make the meal too! We learned, though, that when grated potatoes sit out for a while, they turn kind of gray. But they still tasted good, and that's what counts.
~Roxy
Sunday, May 9, 2010
Happy Mother's Day!
On Tuesday, I took the CXC test. It ended up being really crazy! I'm not necessarily sorry I did it, it was an interesting experience, but I'm definitely glad I'm not taking 9 different subjects (for most of them, there are 2 papers you have to do, too). So, we were told to be there by 7:30 (school starts at 8:00), so I got there at 7:40 (in Trinidad, 7:30 rarely means 7:30) and went up to my classroom and there were 2 other people from my class there. Even, by the time the bell rang for school to start, not many others were there. So, I waited for a long time up in my classroom and then finally, we were called down to the lab. At 9:00, the first group started their test, and the rest of us, who weren't in the first group sat around and talked in the classroom next door, which we weren't allowed to leave. You see, this was the practical part, which we had to do on the computer and there were only 14 working computers (which is actually more than there have been a lot of the year) so that's why we went in more than one group. By lunch time, no one had officially told us we could leave the classroom but me and some friends decided we could and went to get lunch and found a nice spot under the avocado tree to eat it. Then, at 11:30 our test started. The test itself wasn't so bad, although there were quite a few instructions to follow. But it was mostly pretty straightforward. I was done testing by 2:00. But, then I waited for over an hour and finally the principal came down to start printing it out. Then, that process took about 2 hours, so it was after 5:00 by the time I left the school (school usually lets out at 2:30) and then after 6:00 by the time I got home since it was rush hour so there was a lot of traffic. I have another exam in June, but hopefully since that's the theory part and doesn't involve computers it should be simpler.
~Olivia
At the beginning of this term, we weren't really sure how much longer we'd stay at our school. We decided to keep going until Olivia took this big test she mentioned. So Monday was my last day of school at PAWI! It was really funny, because apparently even if you're wearing a nice white button-down-the-front shirt as a part of your uniform, people still sign it on your last day! On Tuesday, I just stayed at home and started preparing for homeschool. The principal allowed us to keep all our textbooks (here, we have one for basically all our subjects), so I looked through those and decided which ones were worth using for our homeschool time. Then on Wednesday we really started our homeschool experience! My parents made up a schedule for us. On Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, we have regular classes. On Tuesday, Olivia and I do some independent project. And on Thursday, we take a fieldtrip! Next week will be our first full week of homeschool, but we got it started this week! I think it's been working pretty well and I've enjoyed it (so far, at least). I'm really glad we've been at PAWI as long as we were, but I think it's the right time to leave, also.
~Roxy
Today is Mother's Day. It is as big of a holiday here as at home. The TV has been plastered with commercials for what you can buy mom. All of that is pretty much familiar. One fun difference is how big a deal the churches make about Mother's Day. In our congregation, the teenagers were called to the front and asked to bring in the gifts. Then all the mothers were invited up one by one and presented a small cheesecake all wrapped in pretty cellophane. It is worth noting that I have never been given cheesecake here. While you can order it in some fancy restaurants, it is not a common Trini food. It is sort of an exotic treat. People were given opportunities to share about what they appreciate about their mothers. A woman in the church who no longer has a living mother and who never had a Christian mother shared how much she appreciated the women in the church who have been mothers to her. Then, quietly after church was over, she gave me a pair of earrings for Mother's Day.
After church we came home. Our apartment is above one of the other churches. When we walked in to the church downstairs which we go through on the way to our apartment, we found four plates of cake with a note saying they were for our family. Right now, as I write this, Richard and the girls have banished me to the back while they prepare a surprise supper for me. It looks like this Mother's Day is going to be a real food bonanza for me.
~Barb
We had mentioned a while back that parliament had been dissolved, and elections would need to be held soon. It is now about two weeks until election day (May 24), and the political campaign is in full swing. Every night, both of the major parties hold a campaign rally somewhere on the island. All of them are carried live on local television, often on more than one channel. On one evening this week, I found three different rallies being televised live on five different TV stations.
The campaigns are quite negative, too. We've seen attacks getting worse in the U.S. in recent years, but this election is worse than any I've seen back home. For example, the other day there were reports that one of the party headquarters received a phone call warning of death threats against the party's leader. Rather than denouncing violence, however, high-ranking members of the other party immediately dismissed the reports as merely a hoax designed to gain attention and sympathy for their opponents. It has been really interesting for us to see how another political system works, but we'll be glad when the nasty campaign is over.
~Richard
~Olivia
At the beginning of this term, we weren't really sure how much longer we'd stay at our school. We decided to keep going until Olivia took this big test she mentioned. So Monday was my last day of school at PAWI! It was really funny, because apparently even if you're wearing a nice white button-down-the-front shirt as a part of your uniform, people still sign it on your last day! On Tuesday, I just stayed at home and started preparing for homeschool. The principal allowed us to keep all our textbooks (here, we have one for basically all our subjects), so I looked through those and decided which ones were worth using for our homeschool time. Then on Wednesday we really started our homeschool experience! My parents made up a schedule for us. On Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, we have regular classes. On Tuesday, Olivia and I do some independent project. And on Thursday, we take a fieldtrip! Next week will be our first full week of homeschool, but we got it started this week! I think it's been working pretty well and I've enjoyed it (so far, at least). I'm really glad we've been at PAWI as long as we were, but I think it's the right time to leave, also.
~Roxy
Today is Mother's Day. It is as big of a holiday here as at home. The TV has been plastered with commercials for what you can buy mom. All of that is pretty much familiar. One fun difference is how big a deal the churches make about Mother's Day. In our congregation, the teenagers were called to the front and asked to bring in the gifts. Then all the mothers were invited up one by one and presented a small cheesecake all wrapped in pretty cellophane. It is worth noting that I have never been given cheesecake here. While you can order it in some fancy restaurants, it is not a common Trini food. It is sort of an exotic treat. People were given opportunities to share about what they appreciate about their mothers. A woman in the church who no longer has a living mother and who never had a Christian mother shared how much she appreciated the women in the church who have been mothers to her. Then, quietly after church was over, she gave me a pair of earrings for Mother's Day.
After church we came home. Our apartment is above one of the other churches. When we walked in to the church downstairs which we go through on the way to our apartment, we found four plates of cake with a note saying they were for our family. Right now, as I write this, Richard and the girls have banished me to the back while they prepare a surprise supper for me. It looks like this Mother's Day is going to be a real food bonanza for me.
~Barb
We had mentioned a while back that parliament had been dissolved, and elections would need to be held soon. It is now about two weeks until election day (May 24), and the political campaign is in full swing. Every night, both of the major parties hold a campaign rally somewhere on the island. All of them are carried live on local television, often on more than one channel. On one evening this week, I found three different rallies being televised live on five different TV stations.
The campaigns are quite negative, too. We've seen attacks getting worse in the U.S. in recent years, but this election is worse than any I've seen back home. For example, the other day there were reports that one of the party headquarters received a phone call warning of death threats against the party's leader. Rather than denouncing violence, however, high-ranking members of the other party immediately dismissed the reports as merely a hoax designed to gain attention and sympathy for their opponents. It has been really interesting for us to see how another political system works, but we'll be glad when the nasty campaign is over.
~Richard
Sunday, May 2, 2010
Exam Time
This week, I am taking a big test. They call it CXC which stands for Caribbean Examination Council. At the end of form 5, everyone has to take this exam. There are a bunch of different subjects that you can take the test in. Usually, students choose around (I'm guessing) 6-9 subjects to take during form 5, which they then take the exams in. However, I am in form 4. At my school, the principal is wanting all the form 4's to take a CXC exam in the subject EDPM (Electronic Document Preparation and Management). Ever since September, when school started, we have been working on our SBA (School Based Assessment). This is basically just a conglomeration of the work we needed to learn for the exam. Somehow that goes towards our grade, but our teacher grades it. Then, on Tuesday, I have the exam for the practical part. Some official examiner person will come to watch us and grade us, I think. But, it will still take place at the school. And then in another month, I will take the theory part of the exam.
For me, this is not that big of a deal, because I don't think it will really count for anything for me, but for the form fives, it is a very big deal. When people go to look for jobs, the employers will look at how well you did on the CXC exam. That and the exam that the form sixes take. But, after they finish form 5, they can graduate from school and they don't actually have to take form 6. Usually, those who are college bound do take form 6, though. So, anyways, there is a lot of pressure to do good on CXC. It's not as big of a deal for me, though. But, this exam is something that people all over the Caribbean take.
~Olivia
I taught my last class on Wed. night. I have had most of these 7 students in all 3 classes I've taught here and all of them in 2. They are all on their way to becoming social workers. I felt a little warm and fuzzy about the whole thing because I won't necessarily see most of them again. They, on the other hand were feeling stressed and a little afraid of me since I am giving them a final yet next week. Actually, the final is tomorrow. So I will have to finish editing it in the morning. But all I have to do is to e-mail it in. They have proctors who administer the test. I'll finish up this class in the next couple of weeks by grading their final exams and their final community project. It feels strange to see this part of my assignment coming to an end.
~Barb
Since the class I've been teaching this term is a preaching class, the "final exam" is for each student to deliver a sermon. With four students, we decided that trying to get all the sermons done in a single two-hour session would be difficult. It would leave hardly any time for the evaluation that we do all together. In addition, I've really stressed that preaching is an act of worship. So when the students preach, we try to set a worshipful tone by beginning with prayer and singing. In order to have sufficient time for all of this, we divided the final preaching into two sessions. Two of my students preached last week. The other two will preach on Wednesday. So I've had very little that I need to do in preparation for these last two classes. I will, of course, still need to give grades to each of the sermons. Some of the students have other assignments that they haven't turned in that I'll need to grade as well. So while I will have a fair amount of grading to do in the next week or so, the time spent on classes is down considerably and will soon be completely over.
~Richard
For me, this is not that big of a deal, because I don't think it will really count for anything for me, but for the form fives, it is a very big deal. When people go to look for jobs, the employers will look at how well you did on the CXC exam. That and the exam that the form sixes take. But, after they finish form 5, they can graduate from school and they don't actually have to take form 6. Usually, those who are college bound do take form 6, though. So, anyways, there is a lot of pressure to do good on CXC. It's not as big of a deal for me, though. But, this exam is something that people all over the Caribbean take.
~Olivia
I taught my last class on Wed. night. I have had most of these 7 students in all 3 classes I've taught here and all of them in 2. They are all on their way to becoming social workers. I felt a little warm and fuzzy about the whole thing because I won't necessarily see most of them again. They, on the other hand were feeling stressed and a little afraid of me since I am giving them a final yet next week. Actually, the final is tomorrow. So I will have to finish editing it in the morning. But all I have to do is to e-mail it in. They have proctors who administer the test. I'll finish up this class in the next couple of weeks by grading their final exams and their final community project. It feels strange to see this part of my assignment coming to an end.
~Barb
Since the class I've been teaching this term is a preaching class, the "final exam" is for each student to deliver a sermon. With four students, we decided that trying to get all the sermons done in a single two-hour session would be difficult. It would leave hardly any time for the evaluation that we do all together. In addition, I've really stressed that preaching is an act of worship. So when the students preach, we try to set a worshipful tone by beginning with prayer and singing. In order to have sufficient time for all of this, we divided the final preaching into two sessions. Two of my students preached last week. The other two will preach on Wednesday. So I've had very little that I need to do in preparation for these last two classes. I will, of course, still need to give grades to each of the sermons. Some of the students have other assignments that they haven't turned in that I'll need to grade as well. So while I will have a fair amount of grading to do in the next week or so, the time spent on classes is down considerably and will soon be completely over.
~Richard
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