Sunday, May 23, 2010

An Election, A Graduation, An Outing and A Funeral

There are two major hotels in Trinidad; the Hyatt and the Hilton. We had heard about some of the places to eat at those hotels, so we decided to go try it out last Thursday. Of course, their main restaurants were really expensive; about $50 US. But, we also found out that both restaurants have poolside restaurants and the Hyatt has a tapas bar as well. So, we went to the Hilton first. We were going to get dessert or something there, and then swim, but they had finished serving and so we just went in the pool. The pool was actually very nice, and there aren't a lot of public pools here, so that was nice. Then, we went over to the Hyatt and got supper at the tapas bar there. That was really nice, too. It was expensive, but since with tapas you don't really order that much food anyways, it didn't add up to too much. We tried the plantain chips, lamp kabobs, quesadillas and chicken samosa. It was very good! There was music there around 6:30 and we were hoping to stay for some of that, but we finished too early. But, it was a nice day.
~Olivia

Yesterday was graduation day at West Indies Theological College. The ceremonies marked the formal end of the academic year, and a reminder that our time here in Trinidad is indeed drawing to a close. Eleven students graduated this year. Of those eleven, six had been in at least one of the classes that we taught. The graduation ceremony was held at a Church of God in Port of Spain. I was invited to deliver the opening invocation. When we arrived, we were also somewhat surprised to find out that we were to receive special awards during the ceremony. Barb and I each received a very nice plaque from the college in appreciation of our service over the past year. It was a really nice ceremony, although three hours in an unairconditioned building got a little bit long--especially for all of us in academic gowns.
Following the ceremony, we headed over to the Crowne Plaza Hotel in Port of Spain (the other top hotel besides the Hyatt and the Hilton) for the banquet. The meal was a very nice buffet. There was also a program that included music (solos on steelpan and violin) and toasts of appreciation to various groups of people. Once again, we were toasted in recognition of our service to the college. I had been warned about this a few days in advance so that I could be ready with a brief response as well.
All in all, it was a lovely day, although somewhat bittersweet as we mark the closing of this chapter in our time in Trinidad.
~Richard

We mentioned in our blog last week that the father-in-law of one of the pastors had died suddenly, and that we had gone to the wake. When I mentioned to Trini friends that none of us had ever been to a wake before, they were surprised. I explained that wakes are not common these days in most communities in the U.S. "How do you support the family then?" They were concerned that people were left alone in their grief. While I was able to explain many gestures and rituals of support that still occur, it is a good question. Do we sometimes neglect the family in times of death? This family had wakes from the death on Friday till the funeral on Tuesday. We went on two nights.
The wake was not the only first I encountered related to that death. The funeral service was not unlike funerals to which I am accustomed. But this gentleman chose to be cremated. Some choose to be cremated in a crematorium. But it is more common to be taken to a cremation site. So, after the funeral we all got in our cars and processed to the cremation site where words of comfort and sending were spoken, just like those I have been part of at burials. Then, kindling was placed on and around the body along with ghee, a sort of butter common in Indian cooking. Ghee was also put in the pyre where the body was then placed and lit. Hymns were sung while this was happening. People stood for a while, then began to turn to one another and to the family and visit or share words of comfort.
There was one more first. As our carload was leaving, one of the people we gave a ride to wanted to buy us snowcones. So, yes, I had my first ever snowcone at a funeral. In the U.S. it probably would be considered crass to sell refreshments at a cemetery. But on this hot day, when the family and their friends were there for a while, a family quietly available off a ways to sell cool drinks, was a real service. For a very small fee, they kept the mourners hydrated. Having someone buy and bring you something cool was an act of compassion.
~Barb

Although we have been talking about the elections and campaigns for a while now, the actual election will be held tomorrow. The final rallies for each party were held yesterday, but this afternoon, all we could find on the local stations were just re-runs of yesterday's rallies. In some ways it will be a relief to have the elections over, partly because it'll be exciting to find out who won, and also partly because some of the songs blasting out of trucks that drive by adorned in either yellow or red (the parties' colours) are kind of getting on my nerves. If we turn on the radio, we're hearing political advertisements constantly! There are more than this, but here are some links to a few of the songs we've become accustomed to hearing multiple times a day.
Patrick Manning Have to Go Patrick Manning is the current prime minister, and Jack Warner is the Chair of the opposition party. This is a song campaigning for the opposing party, the People's Partnership.
Ah Cyar Vote Fuh Dat (I can't vote for that) This is also for the opposition party, saying that they can't vote for all the current corruption.
Patrick Leave an Go Nah
This song is for the People's Partnership as well. Kamla is the leader of the opposition, so if they win the election tomorrow, she will become the first woman Prime Minister!
We Votin' PNM This one is for the PNM, which is the party who's in power right now.
We Stepping Up 'We stepping up' is one of the PNM's slogans for this election. This song is also promoting the PNM
Put Your X By D Balisier
The Balisier is a flower--the red flower they show in the video. It is the symbol for the PNM.
While these were fun to listen to for a while, they get kind of old and we hear them a little too much. We will be excited tomorrow evening to hear who won the election, and also to welcome some of our family who will be visiting us and coming in tomorrow evening!
~Roxy

Sunday, May 16, 2010

May Musings

On Thursday, for our weekly field trip for home school, we decided to go up to Chaguaramas which is an area we've been wanting to look around more. It's just past Diego Martin, where we go to church. We had looked at some of the stuff to do in Chaguaramas and what looked the most interesting was a hike up to a waterfall they call Edith Falls. My mom talked to the tour guide, who said it was an easy hike and a common sense path. We parked at the golf course, and it was obvious where the hike started. The hike went into the rain forest and it was really pretty, although also extremely humid with not much breeze. For the most part the path was fairly "common sense" but then we got to a place where the path turned into a bunch of rocks. We didn't think we were at the waterfall, but it didn't seem like we were on the trail anymore. We had to climb over a bunch of rocks and finally we got to this place at the bottom of a huge cliff and there was water trickling down the side. It was really pretty! Once we got there, it was obvious. For a while, we just sat there and watched it. Then, we went down to the bottom and watched the tiny little frogs jump around. Roxy caught quite a few frogs actually. Eventually, we turned around and made our way back to the golf course. And right after we got in our car it started raining! We got back just in time.
~Olivia

A major highlight from this past week is that we got a NEW CAR! Actually, it's not really ours, it belongs to Virginia Mennonite Missions. But it's the car that we will use for the next couple of months. It's also not really new, but it's much newer and more reliable than the last one. It's a 2005 Toyota Yaris, with only 38,000 kilometers (about 25,000 miles) on it; and it seems to be in excellent condition. Those who've been following our blog over the past several months know that we've faced a number of issues with the former car (a 1998 Mitsubishi Galant with more than 325,000 kilometers or over 200,000 miles). We never were able to find a gasket to replace the one that's been leaking oil since Christmas. We also finally gave up on actually getting the car repaired from the accident when I was rear-ended at a stop sign almost two months ago. The process of making the insurance claim is still ongoing, and we should still be getting a check from the insurance company.
This past Monday, I delivered the old car to a friend of one of the other Mennonite missionaries here. He buys damaged cars, fixes them up and sells them. So he was happy to purchase our old one. Then on Tuesday, I spent the entire morning waiting at the license office in Port of Spain to get the title transferred from the former owner of the Yaris. Most of that time, the workers were still finishing up paperwork from transfers they had started doing the day before. Finally, at about 1:00, all the paperwork was complete and I was able to bring the Yaris home. We are very happy to have the "new" car to drive. Besides being newer, in better shape, more reliable and using less gas than the old car, we also love the fact that it's PURPLE!
~Richard

During our time here in Trinidad we have been able to experience many firsts. Yesterday brought another first for all four of us. It was the first wake we had ever attended. The father of Linda Gunpath, one of the Mennonite pastors' wives, died suddenly on Friday. So, from that night until the funeral, people gather each night at the home of the family to sit with them and offer support. They believe that the cause of death was a heart attack, but would like to do an autopsy. Because autopsies are not done on weekends, they have to wait till Monday. So we will probably be attending the funeral early next week. That means that the family will have wakes for about 4 nights in a row at the house. Mostly folks just gather and visit. The gathering happens outside under a tent. The atmosphere was very nice and supportive. Small children ran and played happily. Last night the gathering was informal. Tonight they may have more of a worship service in their yard with singing and prayers. Extended families often live together in different levels or additions to one large house or in neighboring homes. So there are many hands to help serve coffee and Chubbies (a local brand of pop) and give help where needed. It was good to see Linda and her family so supported and to have the opportunity to be a part of that.
~Barb

In our homeschooling schedule, Friday is a day we just take our normal classes we chose. One of these classes is cooking, though, so we decided to invite someone over every Friday night for supper. Our first guests this week were David and Shirley Yoder, and Olivia and I made potato quiche, cucumber salad, and peanut butter chocolate chip cookies, and cut up some fresh mango. While they were here, a man from the Charlieville Mennonite Church (where we live) came up and shared cookies with us! We had a nice visit with everyone and it was fun to make the meal too! We learned, though, that when grated potatoes sit out for a while, they turn kind of gray. But they still tasted good, and that's what counts.
~Roxy

Sunday, May 9, 2010

Happy Mother's Day!

On Tuesday, I took the CXC test. It ended up being really crazy! I'm not necessarily sorry I did it, it was an interesting experience, but I'm definitely glad I'm not taking 9 different subjects (for most of them, there are 2 papers you have to do, too). So, we were told to be there by 7:30 (school starts at 8:00), so I got there at 7:40 (in Trinidad, 7:30 rarely means 7:30) and went up to my classroom and there were 2 other people from my class there. Even, by the time the bell rang for school to start, not many others were there. So, I waited for a long time up in my classroom and then finally, we were called down to the lab. At 9:00, the first group started their test, and the rest of us, who weren't in the first group sat around and talked in the classroom next door, which we weren't allowed to leave. You see, this was the practical part, which we had to do on the computer and there were only 14 working computers (which is actually more than there have been a lot of the year) so that's why we went in more than one group. By lunch time, no one had officially told us we could leave the classroom but me and some friends decided we could and went to get lunch and found a nice spot under the avocado tree to eat it. Then, at 11:30 our test started. The test itself wasn't so bad, although there were quite a few instructions to follow. But it was mostly pretty straightforward. I was done testing by 2:00. But, then I waited for over an hour and finally the principal came down to start printing it out. Then, that process took about 2 hours, so it was after 5:00 by the time I left the school (school usually lets out at 2:30) and then after 6:00 by the time I got home since it was rush hour so there was a lot of traffic. I have another exam in June, but hopefully since that's the theory part and doesn't involve computers it should be simpler.
~Olivia

At the beginning of this term, we weren't really sure how much longer we'd stay at our school. We decided to keep going until Olivia took this big test she mentioned. So Monday was my last day of school at PAWI! It was really funny, because apparently even if you're wearing a nice white button-down-the-front shirt as a part of your uniform, people still sign it on your last day! On Tuesday, I just stayed at home and started preparing for homeschool. The principal allowed us to keep all our textbooks (here, we have one for basically all our subjects), so I looked through those and decided which ones were worth using for our homeschool time. Then on Wednesday we really started our homeschool experience! My parents made up a schedule for us. On Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, we have regular classes. On Tuesday, Olivia and I do some independent project. And on Thursday, we take a fieldtrip! Next week will be our first full week of homeschool, but we got it started this week! I think it's been working pretty well and I've enjoyed it (so far, at least). I'm really glad we've been at PAWI as long as we were, but I think it's the right time to leave, also.
~Roxy

Today is Mother's Day. It is as big of a holiday here as at home. The TV has been plastered with commercials for what you can buy mom. All of that is pretty much familiar. One fun difference is how big a deal the churches make about Mother's Day. In our congregation, the teenagers were called to the front and asked to bring in the gifts. Then all the mothers were invited up one by one and presented a small cheesecake all wrapped in pretty cellophane. It is worth noting that I have never been given cheesecake here. While you can order it in some fancy restaurants, it is not a common Trini food. It is sort of an exotic treat. People were given opportunities to share about what they appreciate about their mothers. A woman in the church who no longer has a living mother and who never had a Christian mother shared how much she appreciated the women in the church who have been mothers to her. Then, quietly after church was over, she gave me a pair of earrings for Mother's Day.
After church we came home. Our apartment is above one of the other churches. When we walked in to the church downstairs which we go through on the way to our apartment, we found four plates of cake with a note saying they were for our family. Right now, as I write this, Richard and the girls have banished me to the back while they prepare a surprise supper for me. It looks like this Mother's Day is going to be a real food bonanza for me.
~Barb

We had mentioned a while back that parliament had been dissolved, and elections would need to be held soon. It is now about two weeks until election day (May 24), and the political campaign is in full swing. Every night, both of the major parties hold a campaign rally somewhere on the island. All of them are carried live on local television, often on more than one channel. On one evening this week, I found three different rallies being televised live on five different TV stations.
The campaigns are quite negative, too. We've seen attacks getting worse in the U.S. in recent years, but this election is worse than any I've seen back home. For example, the other day there were reports that one of the party headquarters received a phone call warning of death threats against the party's leader. Rather than denouncing violence, however, high-ranking members of the other party immediately dismissed the reports as merely a hoax designed to gain attention and sympathy for their opponents. It has been really interesting for us to see how another political system works, but we'll be glad when the nasty campaign is over.
~Richard

Sunday, May 2, 2010

Exam Time

This week, I am taking a big test. They call it CXC which stands for Caribbean Examination Council. At the end of form 5, everyone has to take this exam. There are a bunch of different subjects that you can take the test in. Usually, students choose around (I'm guessing) 6-9 subjects to take during form 5, which they then take the exams in. However, I am in form 4. At my school, the principal is wanting all the form 4's to take a CXC exam in the subject EDPM (Electronic Document Preparation and Management). Ever since September, when school started, we have been working on our SBA (School Based Assessment). This is basically just a conglomeration of the work we needed to learn for the exam. Somehow that goes towards our grade, but our teacher grades it. Then, on Tuesday, I have the exam for the practical part. Some official examiner person will come to watch us and grade us, I think. But, it will still take place at the school. And then in another month, I will take the theory part of the exam.
For me, this is not that big of a deal, because I don't think it will really count for anything for me, but for the form fives, it is a very big deal. When people go to look for jobs, the employers will look at how well you did on the CXC exam. That and the exam that the form sixes take. But, after they finish form 5, they can graduate from school and they don't actually have to take form 6. Usually, those who are college bound do take form 6, though. So, anyways, there is a lot of pressure to do good on CXC. It's not as big of a deal for me, though. But, this exam is something that people all over the Caribbean take.
~Olivia

I taught my last class on Wed. night. I have had most of these 7 students in all 3 classes I've taught here and all of them in 2. They are all on their way to becoming social workers. I felt a little warm and fuzzy about the whole thing because I won't necessarily see most of them again. They, on the other hand were feeling stressed and a little afraid of me since I am giving them a final yet next week. Actually, the final is tomorrow. So I will have to finish editing it in the morning. But all I have to do is to e-mail it in. They have proctors who administer the test. I'll finish up this class in the next couple of weeks by grading their final exams and their final community project. It feels strange to see this part of my assignment coming to an end.
~Barb

Since the class I've been teaching this term is a preaching class, the "final exam" is for each student to deliver a sermon. With four students, we decided that trying to get all the sermons done in a single two-hour session would be difficult. It would leave hardly any time for the evaluation that we do all together. In addition, I've really stressed that preaching is an act of worship. So when the students preach, we try to set a worshipful tone by beginning with prayer and singing. In order to have sufficient time for all of this, we divided the final preaching into two sessions. Two of my students preached last week. The other two will preach on Wednesday. So I've had very little that I need to do in preparation for these last two classes. I will, of course, still need to give grades to each of the sermons. Some of the students have other assignments that they haven't turned in that I'll need to grade as well. So while I will have a fair amount of grading to do in the next week or so, the time spent on classes is down considerably and will soon be completely over.
~Richard